Four Phases of YouCourse companion

How are you, honestly?

Tap the number that fits right now. 1 is light. 10 is the heaviest it gets.

1 · Light10 · Heaviest

What do you need right now?

Your recent check-ins

    My progress

    Tap the circle when you finish a session, then add one word for how you feel. There's no deadline.

    Breathe with me

    Pick a practice from The Grounding Toolkit and follow the sun.

    Voice guideTalks you through each breath. Turn your sound on.
    Ready when you are
    Round 0

    Tools

    Hands-on tools that go with your sessions. Use them anytime.

    Session 1 · Workbook p. 10

    Which survival response is most like me?

    Eight quick questions. Pick the answer that sounds most like you, not the one you wish was true. This isn't a diagnosis. It's a starting point for noticing.

    Session 4 · Workbook p. 60

    Trigger Tracker

    When something sets you off, log it here, even hours later. Over time, you'll start to see your patterns.

    5

    My patterns

    My log

    Session 7 · Workbook p. 85

    Feelings Finder

    Start with the big feeling. Then find the words that fit more exactly. You can pick from more than one.

    Right now, I feel…
    Pick a feeling above.

    Feelings I've named

    Session 9 · Workbook p. 97

    Permission Slip Maker

    Write the permission you've been waiting for. Then save it as a picture for your phone.

    Your permission slip preview

    On a phone? If the image doesn't download, press and hold the picture above and choose "Save."

    Session 10 · Workbook p. 110

    Boundary Script Builder

    Fill in the blanks. You'll get the words to say, a shorter version, and what to say if they push back.

    Your safety comes first. If someone in your life is abusive or dangerous, setting a boundary directly can make things less safe. Talk to someone trained first. Tap "Need help now?" at the top for numbers.
    Anytime · The Grounding Toolkit

    What do I need right now?

    Answer two quick questions and you'll get a practice that fits.

    How does your body feel right now?

    How much time do you have?

    Session 5 · Workbook p. 66

    Anger Thermometer

    Anger is information. First, check how hot it is. Then we'll figure out what it's telling you.

    Session 8 · Workbook p. 90

    Let It Go

    Write something you're grieving or ready to release. When you're ready, let it go. Nothing you write here is saved, anywhere.

    Session 11 · Workbook p. 126

    Values Sort

    Add the values you circled in your workbook. Sort them honestly, then pick your top five.

    Tip: you can add several at once, separated by commas.

    Step 1: Sort them

    Core = I can't be myself without this. Important = matters, but I could bend. Not me = I circled it because it sounded good.

    Step 2: Pick your top five

    Tap in order, most important first. Only your Core values show here.

    My top five

      Session 12 · Workbook p. 130

      Commitment Card

      Pull the most important lines from your commitment on page 130 into a card you can keep on your phone.

      Your commitment card preview

      On a phone? If it doesn't download, press and hold the picture and choose "Save."